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it can be anything, basically whatever Haram.

even if a person does stop and ask for forgiveness then ends up doing it again, how can they stop for once and for all?

Personally, I don’t base my morality on the rantings of bronze age zealots.

As an atheist, I find that everybody is human and we do human things. Sometimes we make mistakes. The only way to stop making mistakes is to stop being human.

Also, I’m not into forgiveness. Instead, I look at the good and bad in all people. There are some people I dislike more than I like. I tend to stay away from them. If later, they change or I see them in a better light, I may change my opinion about them. That happens whether or not I happen to forgive any particular action they take.

It’s more important to respect people for who they are than to check off a list of things you have to fogive of them.

I really want to get one and my mum said that if I can provide her evidence from the Quran and/or sunnah that say’s that it is permissible and not haram, she will let me get one. Can anyone help me out please?? I really really want to get an eyebrow piercing!

it is not haram i have some evidences but they were written in arabic any how we the muslims are not allowed to hurt ourselves. stuffs that will caused a damage for your body are Haram like tattoos , alcohol etc … piercing is alright

Dining is one of the most essential ways of communicating and entertaining in Asia. Meals, etiquette and placements have many important meanings and you should make a special effort to know and understand them. If you are uneasy in a certain situation do feel free to ask your host. They do not regard your questions as embarrassing but as showing respect and interest in their culture.

Invitation by an Asian host

• Invitations should be acknowledged regardless of declining or accepting.
• Never come too early, be on time or a little late. Exception: Chinese weddings are always delayed!
• If you are not sure what to wear for a formal invitation and/or for a special occasion and it is not indicated on the invitation, ask your host.
• Wear modest clothes when invited into a Muslim home.
• A verbal thank you is sufficient but a telephone call a day later is greatly appreciated. Flowers are a Western custom and are either sent before the event or the next day.

Inviting an Asian guest

• Keep your dog locked away as Muslims are not allowed contact with dogs. Chinese are often afraid of dogs.
• Respect the fasting month Ramadan when inviting others to your home.
• Muslims are not permitted to drink alcohol. If you receive an unexpected guest you need to serve drinks.
• Inquire about food restrictions when inviting for lunch or dinner. Muslims must eat halal which means food and drink sanctioned by Allah for consumption. Examples of Haram (prohibited) food are pork, alcohol, lard shortening, animal shortening, gelatin, pepsin, monoglyceride, animal hormones didlyceride eg. emulsifiers if of animal origin.
• Your guests may be vegetarian, or not allowed to eat pork (Muslims) or beef (Hindus). The safest choice is fish, chicken and vegetables.

Dining Chinese Style

• Chinese dinners are a lively affair with lots of laughter and dish sharing. Diners eat fast and leave the table soon to proceed to another location.
• Your hosts will be glad to explain food and traditions in connection with the meal served and warn you about spicy dishes. It is considered polite to praise the food.
• You are not expected to be a master of eating with chopsticks and may ask for a fork and a spoon instead.
• Chinese hosts will place food onto your plate and if you want to reciprocate you need to turn your chopsticks and use the other end.
• Dropping chopsticks is a sign of bad luck and you should not stick the chopsticks up in a bowl of rice and never cross one over the other.
• Food is transferred from one dish to the other by spoons.
• Do not take the last food of a dish unless invited to do so.
• Bones are removed from your mouth with the chopsticks if possible.

Dining Indian and Muslim Style

• When invited by Muslims and Hindus wait until you are invited to start eating and drinking.
• Only use the right hand. Use the serving spoon when serving yourself from the center.
• It is customary to start eating some rice first when the meal starts.
• You are not allowed to serve food to others with your own utensils.
• When eating with your fingers (e.g. banana leaf style) take a small amount with the tip of your fingers only.
• You are allowed to pass on the dishes with your left hand supported by your right when your right hand is soiled.
• Drinking glasses can be lifted with your left hand as well.
• You will be offered a finger bowl at the end of each meal to clean your fingers, which should not be licked.

Gifts/ Taboo gifts and wrapping paper colors in Asia

Buddhists/Taoists (e.g. Chinese, Thais, Indians, Indonesians, Sri Lankans, Taiwanese, Koreans)

Rules and Taboos

Give presents in pairs, money and flowers come in even numbers.

White flowers are taboo.

Colors of Wrapping Paper

Happy occasions: Red, gold

Funeral: white, blue, black.

Wedding Gifts

No scissors, knifes, clocks, handkerchiefs. Gift vouchers and money in a red envelope.

Gifts for Babies and Mothers

The stork/heron is the symbol of death in Chinese culture.

Muslims (e.g. Malays, Indonesians, Indians)

Rules and Taboos

Alcohol, cigarettes, ashtrays, wine glasses, scissors, knives, underclothes, sleepwear, articles of pork or leather.

Colors of Wrapping Paper

Favorites: Red (love) Green (religion)

Wedding Gifts

Decorative or functional household items.

Gifts for Babies and Mothers

Colorful dresses and jackets. No toy dogs.

Hindus (Indians, Sri Lankan, Filipinos)

Rules/Taboos

Sweets, fruits chocolates

Taboos: no cow products, ashtrays, knifes, wine glasses, alcohol, cigarettes, or white flowers

Colors of Wrapping Paper

Red, gold, green and all bright colors

Wedding Gifts

Decorative or functional household items.

Gifts for Babies and Mothers

Piece of gold jewelry or colorful clothing

Jacqueline Reischel
http://www.articlesbase.com/culture-articles/asian-dining-etiquette-and-tips-for-gifts-681546.html

Dining is one of the most essential ways of communicating and entertaining in Asia. Meals, etiquette and placements have many important meanings and you should make a special effort to know and understand them. If you are uneasy in a certain situation do feel free to ask your host. They do not regard your questions as embarrassing but as showing respect and interest in their culture.

Invitation by an Asian host

• Invitations should be acknowledged regardless of declining or accepting.
• Never come too early, be on time or a little late. Exception: Chinese weddings are always delayed!
• If you are not sure what to wear for a formal invitation and/or for a special occasion and it is not indicated on the invitation, ask your host.
• Wear modest clothes when invited into a Muslim home.
• A verbal thank you is sufficient but a telephone call a day later is greatly appreciated. Flowers are a Western custom and are either sent before the event or the next day.

Inviting an Asian guest

• Keep your dog locked away as Muslims are not allowed contact with dogs. Chinese are often afraid of dogs.
• Respect the fasting month Ramadan when inviting others to your home.
• Muslims are not permitted to drink alcohol. If you receive an unexpected guest you need to serve drinks.
• Inquire about food restrictions when inviting for lunch or dinner. Muslims must eat halal which means food and drink sanctioned by Allah for consumption. Examples of Haram (prohibited) food are pork, alcohol, lard shortening, animal shortening, gelatin, pepsin, monoglyceride, animal hormones didlyceride eg. emulsifiers if of animal origin.
• Your guests may be vegetarian, or not allowed to eat pork (Muslims) or beef (Hindus). The safest choice is fish, chicken and vegetables.

Dining Chinese Style

• Chinese dinners are a lively affair with lots of laughter and dish sharing. Diners eat fast and leave the table soon to proceed to another location.
• Your hosts will be glad to explain food and traditions in connection with the meal served and warn you about spicy dishes. It is considered polite to praise the food.
• You are not expected to be a master of eating with chopsticks and may ask for a fork and a spoon instead.
• Chinese hosts will place food onto your plate and if you want to reciprocate you need to turn your chopsticks and use the other end.
• Dropping chopsticks is a sign of bad luck and you should not stick the chopsticks up in a bowl of rice and never cross one over the other.
• Food is transferred from one dish to the other by spoons.
• Do not take the last food of a dish unless invited to do so.
• Bones are removed from your mouth with the chopsticks if possible.

Dining Indian and Muslim Style

• When invited by Muslims and Hindus wait until you are invited to start eating and drinking.
• Only use the right hand. Use the serving spoon when serving yourself from the center.
• It is customary to start eating some rice first when the meal starts.
• You are not allowed to serve food to others with your own utensils.
• When eating with your fingers (e.g. banana leaf style) take a small amount with the tip of your fingers only.
• You are allowed to pass on the dishes with your left hand supported by your right when your right hand is soiled.
• Drinking glasses can be lifted with your left hand as well.
• You will be offered a finger bowl at the end of each meal to clean your fingers, which should not be licked.

Gifts/ Taboo gifts and wrapping paper colors in Asia

Buddhists/Taoists (e.g. Chinese, Thais, Indians, Indonesians, Sri Lankans, Taiwanese, Koreans)

Rules and Taboos

Give presents in pairs, money and flowers come in even numbers.

White flowers are taboo.

Colors of Wrapping Paper

Happy occasions: Red, gold

Funeral: white, blue, black.

Wedding Gifts

No scissors, knifes, clocks, handkerchiefs. Gift vouchers and money in a red envelope.

Gifts for Babies and Mothers

The stork/heron is the symbol of death in Chinese culture.

Muslims (e.g. Malays, Indonesians, Indians)

Rules and Taboos

Alcohol, cigarettes, ashtrays, wine glasses, scissors, knives, underclothes, sleepwear, articles of pork or leather.

Colors of Wrapping Paper

Favorites: Red (love) Green (religion)

Wedding Gifts

Decorative or functional household items.

Gifts for Babies and Mothers

Colorful dresses and jackets. No toy dogs.

Hindus (Indians, Sri Lankan, Filipinos)

Rules/Taboos

Sweets, fruits chocolates

Taboos: no cow products, ashtrays, knifes, wine glasses, alcohol, cigarettes, or white flowers

Colors of Wrapping Paper

Red, gold, green and all bright colors

Wedding Gifts

Decorative or functional household items.

Gifts for Babies and Mothers

Piece of gold jewelry or colorful clothing

Jacqueline Reischel
http://www.articlesbase.com/culture-articles/asian-dining-etiquette-and-tips-for-gifts-681546.html

A work of fiction. After Saudi Arabia erupts in a civil war and its oil fields are disabled, radical Islam rages. Two CIA case officers, a man and a woman, are ordered to go into the frey in search of a nuclear weapon.

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I want to take this class but dont know if its haram

I like to dance, it keeps me fit, and one day inshallah I can dance for my future spouse

It will be all women and their are no males in the area.

Im not a scholar..or anything, so im not going to say it if its Haram or not.

I can tell you though, i learnt to belly dance with my palestinian, iraqi and egyptian girls, and we didnt use musicy-music we used daf only…which is so much cuter.

Yuh lol…i have the exact same thought…for keeping fit and for my future husband rew lol. winks

I can tel you though if you wanna do the whole balancing the stick on your sides thing then you will need a to have bit of love handles or else its really hard to get it to stay!

Im not sure if its haram…ill need to see other peoples responses, but now that iv learnt it i’ll still put it into use in the future…cheeky.

I used to withdraw the interest earned through my savings accounts and donate it to an orphanage.My village Masjid needs lot of money to complete the construction work and finds it difficult to raise fund.My friend says spending ill-gotten interest on religious work is also Haram.

Technically you should not put your money to ‘usury’ at all.
Having done so, use as you are led.

If your a not married and still a virgin, is it Haram to have sexual fantasies about women?

Assalamualaikum

It’s not very nice as it can cause one to go astray and do wrong. Best is to get married.

And Allah knows best
May Allah provide us with guidance
Salaam

Last night I made my 13 wives wear cheerleader cloths and dance in front of me while I was watching a cricket match.

Is it Haram?

please, kill yourself if that’s what you call funny.

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