about dream interpretation of Istikhara?
Asalamu alaikum…
I wanted some help and some interpretation for my istikhara. Baisically there’s this really nice and kind and alhamdulliah pious girl which I would really love to get married to, but she is in love with someone else. I tried to convince her that she should not rush into marriage but rather do istikhara and see if that person was right for her. Then I decided that maybe I should do the same.
My both dreams were after Fajr prayer, first dream was that I am at Masjid al Qubaa, putting on my Ihram, and then a man hands me a white prayer hat, and as soon as I am about to climb the bus to Mecca, a man grabs my arm his face is illuMinated in noor, all I see is his brown beard and he says to me "Fight! fight for her and Allah will take care of the rest!" I woke up, and kep thinking maybe it was just me imagining it, so did istikhara again, and this time me and this girl are at Masjid al Nabawi, both dressed in white, and she’s fiddling with a camera and I ask her shall we go in, and when we come infront of the prophet’s Qabr and are about to do duaa, she says to me "I wish my sister was here" and then I wake up and realised a sign was given.
However when I spoke to her about my dream, she became vexed and annoyed, what can I do? apart from duaa and prayer, for myslef and her, and wallahi I remember her in my every prayer without fail! that may Allah (SWT) guide her back onto Sirat al Mustaqeem…and myself…
Wassalam.
Bilal
It could be a guidance dream, or it could be that you so desire to have this particular girl that you caused this dream. Why not pray for Allah to send you the RIGHT person and not a specific person? People always want to control the will of Allah but are often unhappy when they get exactly who and what they pray for. Pray for the genuine wisdom and guidance of Allah; pray for forgiveness at being so head strong and controlling. Submit. Surrender.